Is it easy for you to ask for help when you need it, or do you prefer to rely only on yourself? Why? Photographers, artists, poets: show us SELF.
I think it is easy to ask anyone for help. The hard part is actually taking someone’s advice. I feel that we all see help and guidance from someone other than ourselves but we already know the answers deep in ourselves. We just want to hear it be justified by someone else and when we don’t hear the answer we are looking for we get angry and don’t listen anyway.
I am always seeking help emotionally from anyone who will listen. It is not difficult for me. I also know that I want to hear what I want to hear. I mean who isn’t like that really. I love receiving the truth and honesty and I can handle that but I want to justify my actions and feelings because I want to be correct.
Life isn’t like that. I know some people who rely on themselves. They don’t discuss their personal business with anyone. I find that to be true with a lot of men rather than women but there are exceptions.
I just want a new way of coping with everyday life. That is the help that I look for. I spend nights crying for no reason and looking at myself in the mirror wondering why it is so hard for me to be normal. And to be honest, no matter who I talk to you and ask for help, they don’t know how to help me anyway because the answer as I said, relies on me.
So Lee, why don’t you try helping because no one else can.