Tell someone you’re proud of just how proud you are. Photographers, artists, poets: show us SUCCESS. via Daily Prompt: Pat on the Back.
Normally, I would go on and on about how proud I am of my dad for doing all the great things he has done and still does but there are also other people in my life that I am very proud of and love more than my own life.
Louis is my brother. I will never forget the day he was born. I was 3 1/2 years old and thanks to my phenomenal memory I remember not knowing who I would be meeting in the hospital after he was born but literally praying, “please let me have a brother, please please please let me have a brother.”
I remember being a toddler myself but holding him as my mother sat beside me showing me how to feed him with the bottle. He was so little and so was I. Of course, I felt some jealousy when the attention that was solely towards me had to be shared with him but I adjusted. I loved him so much already even though technically we were both babies.
He is the first person I have ever watched grow up in front of me. Of course through the years we fought like all siblings do and we went through those awkward hormonal times in our lives at different times and didn’t see eye to eye for a while but none the less, I would die for this person at any time, at any age.
Now he is approaching his mid 20s and I am in my late 20s. We have grown a lot closer over the past year and it has never made me happier to get the calls and texts from him. We don’t spend a lot of time together but when we do we always have fun and laugh.
With the background said, I am proud of him. He has accomplished a lot in his life so far. He manages a restaurant, he is on his way to being in the academy for the New York Fire Department, he has completed his Bachelor’s Degree in Finance at Baruch and he is such a well-rounded man now. We both have been through a lot with the abandonment of our mother and we both handled those events differently. He has succeeded. He remains positive and he lives a great fun life. He is going for his goals and grabbing them by the balls. He isn’t perfect, of course but in my eyes he is pretty damn close. I am proud of his triumphs through adversity and I am proud to be his sister. I love him more than anything and I always will. I will protect him however I can and be there for him in any way that I can.
Hey Lou, I don’t know if I ever told you but I’m so, I’m so, I’m so proud of you.